Have you ever caught yourself thinking, “I’m overreacting” or “It wasn’t that bad”? Maybe you’ve pushed down your feelings, told yourself to “suck it up,” or brushed off a hurtful experience as no big deal. I know I have. If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. Many of us, especially neurodivergent women, fall into the […]
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Boundaries: The Secret to Thriving in Business and Life For most of my life, I believed saying “yes” to everything was the only way to succeed. I over-delivered, over-committed, and overworked, fuelled by a constant fear that people would reject me if I didn’t meet their expectations. But while I was ticking boxes for others,
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Self-acceptance isn’t just a buzzword—it’s a foundational step toward living a life that aligns with your true self, values, and goals. In my RADIATE model, which focuses on personal growth and alignment for us neurodivergent individuals, Acceptance is the second pillar. It builds on Reflection and sets the stage for the transformative steps ahead. By
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When ADHD was first suggested to me, I immediately pictured a young boy: hyperactive, impulsive, unable to sit still. That wasn’t me, so I brushed off the idea. But this reaction isn’t uncommon—it’s rooted in stereotypes about ADHD and neurodiversity that, for decades, have obscured the experiences of many people, especially women. The reality is
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None of us needs anyone else’s permission to be different. In fact, it’s the whole point of my book, ‘Permission to be Different‘ – it’s not about seeking permission from anybody else, it’s about giving yourself permission. I spent much of my life unknowingly waiting for that permission, waiting for others to tell me it
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I used to think success meant doing everything perfectly, staying in control at all times, and never daring to say no. But over time, I discovered that wasn’t success at all—it was burnout. I know firsthand what it feels like to live in a state of constant overwhelm and burnout, always putting others’
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I’ve always found it hard to give people key pieces of information – the highlights. I particularly noticed it during my corporate career – I wasn’t diagnosed autistic and ADHD at the time. On so many occasions, my managers asked for just the information they needed to know. I’d give all the info – as
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I’m all about smashing apart outdated stereotypes of what autism and ADHD look like, particularly for females. There are many tips I could share to help you achieve that. Today, I’ve chosen my top three… 1: Stop trying to fit in and start standing out. Let your neurodivergent traits – the authentic you – really
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Spiky profile is a helpful term for those of us with neurodivergent brains. It refers to the fact that we can excel in some skills, whist struggling with daily tasks that neurotypical brains find easy. It helps to highlight our strengths, and areas where support may be beneficial.
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ADHD Planner and organisers can prove challenging for many of us. Being able to use something for longer than two weeks can prove extremely difficult. What if ADHD planner and organisers aren’t for you?
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